Thursday, December 14, 2017

Jazzy's 3rd Gotcha Day

We've been pretty focused on Archer and Lyla lately, but we made sure to take some time to focus on Jazzy for her 3rd Gotcha Day.  I love Jazzy so very much and she holds such a special place in my heart.  I know I've gone on and on about what she means to me, but I feel I must reiterate some of those sentiments on her special day.  

(Photo Cred: anthem-photo.com)

I still remember when we went to "just look at her."  I convinced Adam that we could just go see if she might be a good fit for us.  We both knew I had already fallen in love with her and that she was coming home with us.  

Adam and I still can't believe our luck with Jazzy.  She's the sweetest, most well-behaved dog.  And now she can add the best big sister to her resume.  Seeing her interact with our babies makes me love her even more.  There's not a day that goes by that I don't tear up watching Jazzy with her babies.  

(Photo Cred: anthem-photo.com)

Whenever we take the babies somewhere, Jazzy is right by the door to greet them when we get home.  She sticks her head in each car seat and gives each baby kisses as soon as we set them down.  Then she'll greet Adam and I.  Several times a day, she'll wander over to wherever the babies are and stare at them while wagging her little tail.  She so badly wants them to play with her!  She'll get in her playing stance, but they can't play just yet.  In a few short months I have a feeling she'll be trying to get away from them!  

To make sure Jazzy knows how much we love her, we wanted to make her Gotcha Day special.  Ever since the twins arrived and even before when I was restricted to activity while going through IVF and for the latter half of my pregnancy, Jazzy hasn't gotten to go on her walks with me like we used to.  Now when we do go on walks, I have to bring the stroller along.  Jazzy does not care for the stroller blocking her way.  So Nana came to watch the babies so I could take Jazzy on a nice, long walk.


It was actually a really nice day and am so glad Jazzy got to enjoy the beautiful weather and my full attention.  I let her stop and sniff wherever she pleased.  I let her pick the route to take.  I even let her eat a random apple slice she found, though I drew the line at the dead bird carcass.  Sorry, Jazzy.  

In addition to her walk, we made sure Jazzy got lots of special treats.  Jazzy showed off all her tricks to her babies, in exchange for some training treats.  


And Adam brought home some salmon jerky for her.  Not what I would choose to eat, but Jazzy was a fan.     


Jazzy ended her day sleeping with us in our bed.  She has gone back to sleeping with us in our bed at night.  When we brought the babies home, she would sleep on her perch on the couch at night.  I think she wanted to stay on patrol and make sure the babies were safe.  I kinda missed her snuggling up with me and stealing half my spot.  So I'm glad she's back where she belongs, with her Mom.  

I love you, Jazzy!  

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Four Months!

How the heck are my babies four months old already?!  Perhaps what's more unbelievable is how on track I am with this post.  Archer and Lyla turned four months old on December 3, 2017.

They are so stinking cute!  I swear they get just a little bit cuter each day.  They are definitely getting more interested in each other.  When I need to take a shower or get something done, I've been putting them both on a blanket next to each other with a few toys.  They babble and smile at each other.  Unless one of them smacks the other in the face or kicks too hard, they are content to be around each other.  Then they act like it's the end of the world.  But most of the time they like each other.   


Both Archer and Lyla are starting to grasp their toys, my hair, my face, my shirt...you know, whatever else is near their hands at the moment.  I can tell Lyla's fine motor skills are a bit more refined than Archer's at the moment.  They can both roll from their backs to their bellies.  It's kinda funny because they both hate being on their bellies.  So as soon as they roll onto their bellies, they are like "crap, what'd I do this for!?" and start to fuss.  We've gotten the Bumbo seat and exersaucer out for them to play in.  They both enjoy sitting in both.  Lyla likes to be in them for longer stretches of time than Archer.  Archer tends to get mad at the toys around the exersaucer after awhile.  I guess they don't do what he wants them to do.    


I finally got a picture of Archer smiling!  He is generally very generous with his smiles, but for some reason stops whenever I try to take a picture of him.  He is still pretty chill most of the time.  He is getting louder when he talks to you, especially first thing in the morning when Lyla is still trying to sleep.  He likes new environments, but is a bit cautious of new people.  It takes him a little while to warm up to people he's not familiar with.  Archer likes to have books read to him and play in the bath.  His legs are super strong and loves to bang his heels on the ground when he's laying down.  He generally goes to bed around 8 or 9 in the evening and wakes up around 5 in the morning.     


Lyla loves to suck her left thumb.  I am a big fan of this because it helps her soothe herself.  I think this is a big reason why she's been sleeping close to 12 hours at night!  She's able to suck her thumb to help put herself back to sleep if she wakes up during the night.  She loves to be out and about and meet new people.  She's our social butterfly and is quick to warm up to new people.  She still has her moments when she screams, which I think might be due to her acid reflux.  She hasn't been spitting up as much, so I'm hoping her acid reflux symptoms are starting to die down.  Lyla likes to be held and walked around the house.  

Jazzy is still doing remarkably well!  She loves her babies and tries to divide her attention between Archer and Lyla equally.  


I've managed to take all three of my kids for some walks.  Jazzy hates the stroller and would prefer to walk in front of it.  I can't see what she's doing or when she stops so I prefer her to be behind it.  We've compromised and Jazzy now walks beside it.  Jazzy's such a good girl!

I've been on two outings with both babies and only me.  The first one was to take them to get weighed at my breastfeeding support group.  That involved completely undressing each baby and then dressing them again.  It took a bit of thinking on my feet to make it a successful trip.  There are just so many little details to figure out.  Getting them ready to get out the door is a feat in itself.  Making sure they are fed, dressed and have clean diapers takes quite a bit of effort.  Then I have to, at the very least, take a shower and brush my teeth.  I also have to make sure Jazzy's been let outside and let back inside.  Next comes strapping them into their car seats, which they both hate.  I have to remember to bring the diaper backpack and extra bottles and check to make sure the stroller is in the trunk.  From there I load everything and everybody in the car.  Once we get to our destination, I have to get the unreasonably heavy stroller set up, add both car seats to it and remember to grab the diaper backpack and extra bottles.  Whew!  

The babies are still eating every 3 hours, so I try to make our outings fit within a three hour window.  Cutting it too close to their feeding times makes for some cranky babies (and mom).  

The second outing I took was to visit the school where I taught last year.  I wasn't as worried about this outing because I knew there would be lots of people available to hold the babies.  One of these days I'll work up the courage to take them to Target.  I have a tentative playdate set up with a friend for Monday.  Hopefully we'll make it out the door and to our destination without any meltdowns!  

Despite all the hard work, I truly love all the time I get to spend with Archer and Lyla.  Each day we make it through gives me a little more confidence as a mom.  I'm looking forward to what the next month will bring!  

Saturday, December 2, 2017

A New Home for Our Books

I have a bit of a problem when it comes to books.  I like to buy books and read books and not get rid of them after I read them.  Sometimes I just buy them without the intention of reading them because the spines look pretty.  That means I have quite the collection and am running out of space for them to live.  I talked about my little problem in this post.

The post shared the hot mess that was our bookcase in the living room.  What started out as a jam-packed little bookcase...



...turned into a more organized space to keep our books once I took some time to clean it up a bit.  



In order to make the little bookcase more presentable, I had to store some of our books in the basement as a temporary solution.  I wanted a more long-term solution in the form of a bigger bookcase.  That's where Adam's woodworking skill-set comes into play.  I told Adam that I wanted to buy a bigger bookcase to put along that wall in our living room.  His response?  "I'll just make you one."  I love him!

Since Adam was going to make me one, that meant we could have it built to our own specifications.  He could make it the perfect size to fit the space.  And the shelves could be customized to fit not only all of our books, but also the Bose speaker, a file box for all of Adam's piano music that has lived on the floor of our living room in a corner since we moved in and all the decor items we want to showcase.  

So Adam went to work designing and building the perfect bookcase for the space.  We decided we wanted it to fill most of the wall to the right of the fireplace and be side table height.  That way we could utilize the top of the bookcase as a side table for possibly a lamp and a place to set a drink.  We decided to paint it white so it would contrast with our dark chocolate brown walls and allow all the books and accessories to pop.  I let Adam design away because whatever he makes always turns out fantastic.  I know, I'm very lucky!    



Jazzy made sure to check in on Adam while he was using the nail gun.  The silly girl is terrified of the thing!  As soon as she hears the compressor filling up with air, she starts to panic.  She becomes my shadow and if I'm not around, she looks for a good hiding spot.  I've found her under our bed and behind the toilet in our bathroom.  We can't really figure out why it scares her so much.  She could care less about loud storms and she completely ignored the fireworks that were being shot off around our neighborhood during the Fourth of July.  

I almost wonder if she thinks Adam is getting shot by the nail gun.  So every once in awhile, I would let Jazzy in the garage so she could see for herself that her daddy was just fine.  



Adam worked very hard on this beautiful piece of furniture.  He used an assortment of poplar, pine and birch plywood to make the base and shelves of the bookcase.  (I'll get to the top in just a minute.)    


He used wood glue and pocket hole screws on the plywood frame and finish and brad nails on the trim pieces.  Some temporary diagonal bracing helped keep everything square while it was still being assembled.  


Once the basic frame took shape, Adam got to move onto the fun stuff.  He added trim around the base, the edges and along the sides.  He even used his router to design some of his own trim!  He thought of everything, like rounding out the edges of the shelves.  

 

He also added some beadboard along the back that was leftover from our half bathroom project.  It's all the special little details he adds to each of his projects that make me love them all the more.  


After all of the base was completed, Adam painted it white.  It sounds rather simple to say he just painted it white, but it was actually quite the process.  First, he sanded the whole piece to make sure it was nice and smooth.  From there he primed the piece.  The coat of primer helped prevent the knots from showing up in the final paint coat and prevented the wood from soaking up too much paint.  Once the piece was primed, he painted on the final paint color.  He ended up using 3 coats!  All those coats ensured a nice, even finish.  Adam tells me the key to successful painted furniture is to sand in between each coat.  I'm a believer because it turned out flawless!    


Next came a final coat of General Finishes High Performance Gloss.  This final coat sealed the piece, making it durable for years to come.  

Now it was time to move onto the top.  Since the base was white, Adam wanted to showcase some sort of wood for the top.  He wanted some wood with character and an interesting grain pattern.  It's a bit tricky to use stained wood in our living room because the wall color is so dark.  So we wanted to make sure the final wood selection didn't just blend into the wall.  Adam ended up selecting several pieces of ambrosia maple.  It gets its name from the ambrosia beetle.  I guess these beetles bore into the wood and bring along a fungus, which discolors the wood.  It all sounds pretty gross, but you actually end up with really pretty wood.  

He bought several pieces of ambrosia maple that were only surfaced and planed on two sides.  This makes the wood cheaper to purchase, but requires a little more work on the user's end.  Wood sold at box stores is typically surfaced and planed on all four sides.  Adam ripped the larger boards down into smaller boards and then laminated these pieces together to create the top of the bookcase.  To laminate wood, you essentially glue the pieces together.  I do believe Adam used every single clamp he owns to keep the pieces in place until the glue dried.  


Once the glue dried, he used a bench plane to smooth out the wood by hand.  After he planed the wood, he sanded it to get it even smoother.  Next, he "raised the grain" by spraying distilled water on the wood; a necessary step prior to using any water-based stain or finish.  The water makes the wood fibers stand up, so you have to sand them off to ensure a smooth finish.  This is called "de-whiskering the wood."  (Bet you didn't think you'd learn so much about woodworking in this post, huh?)


Since the wood was so pretty, Adam decided not to stain the wood.  He simply added three coats of General Finishes High Performance Gloss (a water-based top-coat).  Again, he sanded in between each coat with higher and higher grits to ensure the smoothest, most flawless finish.  And let me tell you, that top is buttery soft!  I find myself wandering over to the bookcase in the living room and just running my hands across it from time to time.  

Whew!  I'm tired just writing this post!  Adam put so much effort, attention to detail, time and love into this gorgeous piece of furniture.  The fact that he made it makes it so much more beautiful to me.  This will be a piece that will end up in Archer or Lyla's house one day.  (I might be wiping away a tear right now...)

Let's move onto some before and after pictures!  

Here's what our living room looked like before we added the new bookcase.  


And in honor of full disclosure, here's what it looked like with all the baby crap.  


Here's a shot of the corner of the living room that I tend to ignore.  There was an ugly plastic file box and basket crammed in the very corner.  Definitely not my proudest decorating moment.   


Now here's what our living room looks like with our gorgeous new bookcase: 


I am in love with this wall now!  The photos really don't give the piece justice.  It truly is a massive piece and offers up so much storage.  But it's also so very pretty!  All the detail Adam added to the trim and the top really is stunning.  


I love how the white of the bookcase ties in so nicely with the white frames in our vacation gallery wall.  The bookcase stands out beautifully against the dark walls.  I also like how we tweaked the furniture arrangement on that side of the living room.  Placing the chaise in front of the window cozies things up.  And clearing out the clutter in the corner by the keyboard helps streamline things.  Putting the keyboard on the diagonal helps bring that corner to life, as well.  


I have to show you how the top of the bookcase turned out.  It's a stunner!  Look at how pretty the wood is with all the grain popping out.  I'm so happy Adam decided to keep it as its natural color.  It is a nice contrast to our walls, but still adds some warmth since it's a wood tone.  


We don't want to add too much stuff to the top of it because we don't want to cover up all the pretty wood.  We still might add a lamp or some other accessories.  But for now the kids' piggy banks add some charm and whimsy to the living room.  (Thanks for the piggy banks, Aunt Linda and Uncle Bob!)


I can't really say all the rest of the kids' stuff in the living room adds any charm or whimsy.  But I must admit it doesn't bother this Type-A gal as much as I thought it would.  It's certainly a small price to pay for two sweet babies!